Lately I can't help wanting usto be like other people. For example, if I were a smoker, you'd lift a match to the cigarettejust as I put it between my lips. It's never been like thatbetween us: none of thateasy chemistry, no quick, half automaticflares. Everything between ushad to be learned. Saturday finds me broodingbehind my book, all my fantasiesof seduction run upagainst the rocks. Tell me againwhy you don't likesex in the afternoon? No, don't tell me-- I'll never understand younever understand us, America's strangestloving couple: they neverdrink a bottle of wine togetherand rarely look at each other. Into each other's eyes, I mean. . Deborah Garrison
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The quote "Lately I can't help wanting you to be like other people.For example, if I were a smoker,you'd lift a match to the cigarettejust as I put it between my lips.It's never been like thatbetween us: none of thateasy chemistry, no quick, half automaticflares. Everything between ushad to be learned." has become quite popular over the years, making the rounds on internet forums and message boards. The message behind this quote is that if two people are not attracted to each other it is because they are not acting like the rest of society dictates that they should. That they are different from others and therefore should act differently. To want someone to act like everyone else is a sign of insecurity and doubt on the part of one or both parties involved.

Source: A Working Girl Cant Win

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